Kinks and Fetishes are More Common than You Think

So we’ve heard a lot about fetishes and kinks and it all seems like stuff about things in the Fifty Shades, but the facts are totally different. Kinks and Fetishes are more common than you think.

Many people don’t know there are some signs that can definitely reveal they are actually kinky, and they still think kink not normal when they do against inside their mind, since it’s a common social stereotype of crazy or insane. However, if you check one after one among a common list, the thing may be different from what you originally thought.

Here are some common kinks that be admitted by everyone that show a person is a little kinky or just kinky. Let’s check it.


“Voyeurism is getting sexual excitement from watching others when they are naked or engaging in sex acts,” says Jill McDevitt, Ph.D., CalExotics sexologist. And while the pleasure is most commonly derived from watching others, the fetish could also include hearing others engage in sexual acts or even being told about other people’s sexual experiences.

Breath Play

Okay, so breath play refers to the BDSM practice of having your breathing restricted during sexual activity—but it’s not exactly safe (for obvious reasons). A healthier, better alternative: Holding your own breath. Not only do you get to experience breath play, but you’re completely in control of when you choose or not to breathe. The excitement of the action, plus the excitement of the power exchange, is a great alternative, suggests Good Vibrations sexologist Carol Queen, Ph.D.


BDSM is a catch-all acronym for several different aspects of the kink community. The B and D are for bondage and discipline, the D and S are for domination and submission, and the S and M are for sadism and masochism, which is what you see in the Fifty Shades.


Some men ask their sexual partner to call them daddy which may involve incest fantasies and other categories. And in fact, daddy dom and the little girl play are more common than everyone mentioned publicly since activities related are not normally talked with others.

Dominant and submissive

This is not exactly we talked about BDSM but just someone who enjoys domination and his or her partner enjoys being dominated. Some people stay in soft, but more keep exploring.

Foot Fetish

This involves a desire to worship feet through fantasies and acts such as massage, kissing, and smelling. This is proved as an extremely common fetish. But when you first meet a partner who shares that they have a feet fetish, it still is initially jarring but it’s also an opportunity to discuss something you never been through before.

Anal Sex

In a recent study, 37 percent of women and 43 percent of men said they had engaged in anal sex (women received and men give). That could range from adding a finger to using butt plugs to have anal sex with genital of a dildo. FYI, stock up on lube and communicate before engaging the play.

Yes, there is some rough kink play and you may only see it in the pornography but in real life, kinky signs come from a lot of actions. Since most things are privately then it’s very normal if you found you have some new interests than before.