Fetishes are all the rage nowadays, but still largely misunderstood. They bring to mind images of girls in black, laceless lingerie, their hands cuffed behind their backs, breaths tightened in their throats. To some, this is going to come as a surprise and a moment of enlightenment: fetishes aren’t limited to just hardcore BDSM. A fetish can be anything, even something that doesn’t involve any sexual objects whatsoever. And you might’ve developed it unaware. Yes, spanking qualifies as a common sexual fetish, and so do many others. Let’s explore.
Anything that falls in the ambit of consensual striking, whether its flogging, paddling or light spanking is considered to impact play. While the categorization is easy to grasp, the considerations are not.
For example, spanking can vary from a light brush on the cheeks of your ass to a forceful whip. It’s important to set some boundaries, have a safe word.
This is to make sure things don’t go out of hand.
Furthermore, it’s also important to consider the safety of your partner.
Spanking, even unknowingly, anywhere on your lower spine can have grave implications for your physical health. So, make sure you keep things safe and think beyond the aspect of painful pleasure.
Keep reading: How to React When Your Partner Let a Kink Out
Growing up is just the worst, but the best part is, you don’t have to. Fetishes will give you ample opportunity to reinvigorate your childhood desires with a sexual twist.
Role-playing includes dressing up as complete nerds and getting a kick out of it while doing so. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed whatsoever if you feel sexually aroused at the magnificent sight of your girlfriend dressed as Princess Leia (FRIENDS reference).
We all have fantasies that need to be played out. And they can be quite healthy for us, according to science. Research suggests that playing out your sexual fantasies and ensuring your sexual satisfaction in the process is great for your mental health.
The name is self-explanatory. Group sex is forking it out with more than one person. Many people are aroused by the idea of being surrounded by a large group, it’s nothing uncommon.
To make group sex even saucier, there are some things that you can do. The role strapons can play in a lesbian gangbang is criminally underrated. Other sex toys can go a long way too.
Remember: the opportunity for a gangbang won’t arise every day. So, when it does, make sure you go prepared and make the best out of it. One bad experience, one offsetting gesture can turn you off like a kick in the balls.
That’s the stakes you’re up against.
Orgasm Control or Edging
Edging involves making your partner prolong the climax of their orgasms for dramatic effect. Okay, it’s not for dramatic effect. It’s quite the opposite.
Edging is an orgasm game-changer. It’s like giving your partner the volume control to your erections. They can turn the volume up, and make you squirm and squeak, before making you cum like a firecracker on the fourth of July.