Common Ways to Explore Your Kinks

After some figuring out you know you might be a little bit kinky. And probably you have accepted it and be ready to explore a new lifestyle, or just look on and prepare to wait sometime for a decision. Regardless of your decision is, know more about it doesn’t hurt. So we prepare some common ways to explore your kinks and some stories from real people.

SEX FANTASIES AND KINKS

1. Body Fantasies and Kinks

What is a body fantasy or a kink? It could be the shape of a person’s body or just the smell of the hair. You need to focus on then you can find what turns you on.

2. Object Fantasies and Kinks

Have you ever been excited about a sex toy? We may feel sexual stimulation by non-living stuff. That’s what we called object fantasies and kinks.

3. Group Fantasies and Kinks

Traditionally, this could be about threesome, foursome and more. In some cases, people who dance sexually in public would get more excited for them. If you have a plan or experience, you will discover your group kinks.

4. Domination and Submission Fantasies and Kinks

The keyword is BDSM, which contains more than D/s and S/M. Of course, you must have both consents then partner of you may agree and feel sexual pleasure from the physical and mental pain and punishments.

5. Role-playing Fantasies and Kinks

This is an efficient way to explore slightly at the beginning. Participates are allowed to experience as a different person to hold things on. That could a new sexual adventure.

6. Taboo Fantasies and Kinks

When will naughty be related to sexier? People get excitements, adrenaline when they do something never in the plan. You must have many ideas about that. If not, videos will show you.

Threesome

Common Ways People Always Trying

1. Group Sex/Threesomes

A previous partner of mine said, “Three is a threesome, four is a good time, and five or more is an orgy” — take that as you will. Threesome is an easy way to explore at the beginning because there are only limited arms and legs to deal with.

Find a partner might be a problem, but a quick search will help. Don’t discount online dating sites, local meet-ups for kinky folks, or even Craigslist — be sure to take all necessary precautions, of course.

2. Exhibitionism/Voyeurism

Exposures and voyeurism are two aspects of the same thing, all related to public perceptions. Exposures like to be watched; voyeurs like to watch. I have a friend, and the most exciting illusion is to perform a variety of sexual acts on a stage in a crowded room by a circus performer she has never seen before.

Exposures and voyeurism are two aspects of the same thing, all related to public perceptions. Exposures like to be watched; voyeurs like to watch. I have a friend, and the most exciting illusion is to perform a variety of sexual acts on a stage in a crowded room by a circus performer she has never seen before.

But, if people don’t like to see other people making love, then the porn industry will not be a multi-billion dollar industry. Since the madness and voyeurism depend on the public/audience component, it is necessary to obtain the consent of the audience. This may be at a sex party, with a willing friend, or just with your partner. You can ask the “audience” to watch your masturbation, dancing, striptease or other things. Set basic rules (such as “no-touch”).

3. Bondage/Rough Sex

Tied up may be part of other kinks (such as tying up and then slapping on the face), or it may be its own thing. Bundling is fun for several reasons: it allows you to give up control; it can be part of a fantasy scene. Bundling together is exciting, romantic, and the experience changes in every situation.

If you are to bear heavy bondage, it is best to let only an experienced partner bind you. If you don’t do it properly, suspension and long-term restraint can cause nerve damage.

Some partners are very excited about this, while others don’t. If you want your partner to be more demanding, you may have to discuss it in depth to see how far both of you are willing to go.

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